I do not regret coming home. There could have been many more adventures available to us if we had stayed in California, but I do feel like God was guiding us to this decision. First of all, I feel like this “faith trek” was a smashing success. God had some real hardcore lessons to teach us out there, and I pray that we will continue to learn from what we heard, saw, and experienced.
When we left, we were planning on being “mega” missionaries. We wanted to go to the worst areas, confront the worst kinds of people, be met with the worst hostility, etc, etc, etc. Needless to say, God had other plans. As we travelled along, we gradually realized that many of our ambitions were motivated by less-than-holy motives, but that God had higher plans.
We weren’t given much grace for our “mega missionary” project, but God still poured out his power into our lives through this experience. The trip was an amazing personal development time, and God controlled the events to show me how big He is and how small I am.
After we arrived in Reno, our conversations ventured more and more towards home. We finally sat down and decided to talk seriously about it. We attempted to honestly gather and analyze all of the facts, and discern all the pros and cons of each decision. We broke down the reasons to go home like this:
- We had committed to be out until God gave us a way home. We now had enough money to go home.
- My dad had originally asked me to be home by my birthday. Although he later withdrew that request, it still had a strong influence on our decision. At this point, my birthday was two days away.
- Maynard pulled a muscle in his back that was hurting him rather badly. It had been hurting for a few days and he felt the need for better rest and possibly a chiropractor.
- William, the Christian man who we had worked with in Stockton, had strongly encouraged us to go home as soon as possible. He was not antagonistic towards what we were doing, but he felt that going home was the wisest decision we could make at that stage in our journey.
- We both felt at peace about going home. We felt like we had accomplished what God wanted us to accomplish.
We tried to prevent a rash, emotional decision that we would regret later by listing all the possible cons of going home and all the pros of continuing our traveling, and finally, we prayed for wisdom and guidance. We both agreed to “cast” a “situational lot” that would determine whether or not we would go home at this point, and we asked God’s blessing on it.
We were going to walk to the Reno International Airport, and see if they would sell us tickets to go home. If they could fly us to Harrisburg, Pa by my birthday with tickets that we could afford, we agreed that we would go home. If not, we agreed to continue travelling across the US. This is what we defined as our “situational lot.”
The airport was about two miles away and by the time we got there, the ticket stations were out of commission. We tried calling some airline numbers, and at first it seemed that they would book us with flights that we could afford, but later as we called around, details changed and possibilities looked less hopeful.
We finally found a computer that would book our flights for us, and we reserved our tickets at 2:00 AM on Sunday morning, August 30. We boarded our first plane at 6:00 AM, and flew to LA (of all places), had a very extensive layover, boarded a plane for Atlanta, Georgia, waited there for another long layover and a delayed flight, and then flew to Harrisburg International Airport. We got off the plane in Harrisburg at about 11:45 PM that night.
Jonathan Allgyer was the only person from home who knew that we were returning, and he wasn’t informed until our layover in Harrisburg. We weren’t expecting him to come and pick us up, but he volunteered and we gratefully accepted. We found him waiting for us when we got off the plane, and he got me back to my home in York shortly after Midnight on Monday morning. I snuck up and slept in my bedroom, but my room was torn apart so I slept under my mattress instead of on top of it. I can assure you that the carpet in my room never felt better.